How to Switch Off From Work for the Weekend: 5 Simple Friday Habits

Friday is here, the laptop is closing, and in theory the weekend has started. But has it really?

You can be at home making dinner with your partner, your children are laughing in the background, the dog is sitting next to you staring at the cheese with impressive determination — and meanwhile you are still mentally inside an unfinished Excel sheet, replaying a meeting or planning what you will “just quickly” finish tomorrow morning.

Physically, you are home. Mentally, you may still be at work.

Leaving work at work is not about caring less about your job. It is about making sure your job does not quietly take over the parts of your life it was never meant to own.

Here are five practical things you can do on Friday.

  1. 01Close
  2. 02Transition
  3. 03Pause
  4. 04Return
  5. 05Protect

01Close the week before you close the laptop

Before you finish, take five minutes and write down:

  1. what is still unfinished
  2. what can safely wait until Monday
  3. what you need to pick up next week
  4. the first thing you will start with on Monday morning

Then close the laptop.

The point is simple: your brain does not need to keep holding everything open all weekend if you already know where to begin on Monday.

02Create a clear transition from work to weekend

Choose one thing that tells your body and mind: the work week is over.

For example:

  1. take a short walk
  2. listen to music on the way home
  3. change clothes
  4. take the dog out
  5. make a coffee or tea and sit down for ten minutes

If you work from home, this is especially important. Moving directly from your final Teams call to the kitchen is efficient, yes — but not always very helpful for your nervous system.

03Catch the “just one quick thing”

When a work thought appears, do not automatically act on it.

Try this:

  1. ask yourself: Does this really need to be done now?
  2. if not, write it down
  3. leave it for Monday
  4. do not reopen the laptop

Because “just five minutes” has a suspicious tendency to become forty-five.

04Notice when you are physically home but mentally at work

You do not need to fight work thoughts. Just notice them.

When you realise your attention has disappeared into work:

  1. pause
  2. ask yourself: Where am I right now?
  3. look at what is actually around you
  4. listen to the person speaking to you
  5. bring your attention back to what is happening now

And yes, if the dog has been waiting patiently for cheese while you were mentally preparing Monday’s meeting, this may also be the moment to correct that situation.

05Protect one part of the weekend

Choose one part of the weekend that work does not get.

It can be:

  1. Friday dinner
  2. Saturday morning
  3. a run
  4. a walk with the dog
  5. time with family or friends

During that time:

  • no emails
  • no laptop
  • no “quick check”
  • no solving Monday in your head

The goal is not to create another rule you have to perform perfectly. It is simply to remind yourself that your life is bigger than your job.

One question for this Friday

When you leave work today, ask yourself:

Do I actually leave work — or do I simply take it home with me in my head?

If you recognise yourself in this, start with just one of the five things above this weekend.

And if the dog is still waiting for the cheese, start there. Some things really should not be postponed until Monday.

Written by Yulia Hofman Laursen